Introduction
We are living and working in uncertain and unpredictable times. Also, there are increasing demands on our time and energy as we work in challenging roles, often whilst fulfilling caring and domestic responsibilities.
In this context, it is becoming increasingly important to look after our own well being, and that of the people we lead. We know from studies that this ensures a healthy workforce which deliver optimum performance.
Yet where do you start? Well, when things feel out of control the one thing you can control is yourself and the choices you make. And still we often put ourselves at the bottom of the list!
Here are some ideas that will help you look after yourself and become a role model for healthy living and working for those around you.
Make Connections
Connection is a fundamental human need and will have been important to you since the day you were born. This need doesn’t go away. There is strong evidence that feeling close to, and valued by, other people contributes to our well being and productivity.
Ask yourself:
Who have I truly connected with today?
Could I speak with this person instead of sending a mail?
Do I know who this person really is? Do I know what’s important to them?
Do I take time to actively listen to the people I connect with?
Who am I not connecting with and why?
Stay Curious/Keep Learning
We know that life long learning enhances self esteem. Research confirms that setting learning goals promotes well being and a sense of self worth and can even lift vulnerable people out of depression.
Ask yourself:
What have I learnt new today?
What people can I learn more about?
What subject would I enjoy learning more about?
Could I set up a book club?
What research inspires me?
Who can I learn from?
What new books can I read?
What language would I like to learn?
What word games or crosswords can I start doing?
Be Generous
Most people are, by nature, inherently generous. We know that giving can improve our well being and promote happiness and fulfilment.
Ask yourself:
What act of kindness am I proud to have carried out this week?
What can I do to help others in my workplace/community?
Who needs my help right now?
How can I be more generous with my time/listening/wisdom?
What are my gifts and how can I use them to help others?
How can I be more kind and generous to myself?
Be Aware
Studies show us that taking notice of what is happening in the present directly impacts our well being. Being “in the moment” helps ground you and helps you focus and reaffirm your life priorities. The more we know ourselves, understand ourselves, the easier it becomes to make positive choices that are aligned with our values, sense of purpose and motivations.
Ask yourself:
When did I last enjoy the moment?
How often do I make time to appreciate my surroundings?
How aware am I of the mood of my colleagues? Do I notice how they are feeling?
When did I last really listen to a piece of music? What new experiences will inspire me?
How aware am I of my physical and emotional well being? What is my body and mind telling me?
Keep Moving
Studies show that regular physical activity directly promotes well being and can lower rates of anxiety and stress. Exercise is also essential for slowing age related cognitive decline.
Ask yourself:
Do I exercise regularly enough?
Do I move from my desk enough?
When did I last take fresh air or a walk at lunchtime?
Do I choose the stairs or the lift?
Why not walk with a colleague so that I “connect” at the same time?
Can I walk to, or part of the way to, work?
What sports do I enjoy? Could I organise a sporting activity at work?
What “easy” exercise can I engage in like stretching, loosening up, walking instead of driving, gardening?
What exercise groups can I join to promote a communal sense of achievement
Written by
Ruth Morris has been an executive coach for over nineteen years and specializes in senior leadership and team development programmes internationally. Passionate about empowering women in leadership, Ruth is the lead facilitator on the WIG Women’s Leadership Programme, where she works closely with participants to unlock their unique leadership potential and prepare them for senior and board-level positions. Ruth’s coaching style is described as both challenging and supportive, adapting to each client’s needs.
Her clients include prestigious organizations such as ABN Amro Bank, BAE Systems, Mizuho Bank, Audit Wales, Natural Resources Wales, the Competition and Markets Authority, and many central government departments. Ruth is the CEO of Teleios Consulting South East Ltd (trading as Rema Consulting) and leads a talented, diverse team. She holds a Master's in Leadership Development and is an accredited life and career coach. Ruth’s long-standing association with WIG is a testament to her passion for developing strong women leaders and her excitement for contributing to their inspiring future.
Originally published: 22 August 2019